6 exercises to relax your jaw when you catch yourself clenching

To relax your jaw, start by unsticking your teeth and resting your tongue behind your upper front teeth, lips together. Then clench on purpose for five seconds and let go. Massage the muscle in front of your ear, trigger a yawn, and let the jaw drop a little on every exhale. A few minutes are usually enough to bring the tension down.

The whole thing rests on one fact: at rest, your teeth do not touch. There is normally a small free gap between the arches, which dentists call the freeway space. Clench all day and that gap disappears, leaving the masseter working non stop, for nothing.

The six exercises below can be done sitting down, with no equipment, between two emails. They sit alongside broader work on releasing the small tensions of the face (in French), because a clenched jaw is almost never alone: the temples, the forehead and the neck follow.

Because it is a muscle you can contract without anyone seeing it. Under strain, the body raises the tone of several muscle groups at once: shoulders rise, fists close, the jaw shuts. The difference is that shoulders start hurting fairly fast, while a jaw can clench for hours before it says anything.

Researchers call this daytime clenching awake bruxism, distinct from night time grinding. Studies that ping people several times a day on their phone reach the same conclusion: in healthy adults, prolonged tooth contact takes up a meaningful share of the day, and most people are unaware of it in the moment (Colonna et al., 2023).

That is the hard part. You cannot release a muscle you do not know is working. Electromyography has also shown that awake bruxism is not one single behaviour: depending on the person, it shows up as short repeated contractions or as a long, quiet hold (Monteiro et al., 2021). Hence the sixth exercise, which is not an exercise but a reminder.

This is the reference move, the one all the others lead back to. Lips closed without pressing, teeth slightly apart, tip of the tongue against the palate just behind the upper front teeth, no pressure.

Take thirty seconds to settle into it and feel what changes. Most people notice at that exact moment that their teeth were touching, without having decided anything. The jaw relaxation advice handed out in dental practices revolves almost entirely around this position (Orthlieb, L’Information Dentaire).

Do not hold it by force. The point is not to add one contraction to correct another, but to recognise a resting point and come back to it.

A muscle that has been contracted for hours will not release because you asked it to. It releases better if you take it to the opposite extreme first.

Clench your teeth on purpose for five seconds, at roughly half your maximum force, never more. Then let go all at once, letting your mouth fall slightly open. Wait ten seconds before starting again. Three cycles are enough, and you can add two variations by easing the jaw gently to the left, then to the right. The release comes after the letting go, not during the clench: that contrast is the whole point.

A warm washcloth held against the cheeks for two minutes beforehand makes the muscle noticeably more available. If clenching wakes up pain, stop immediately and move on.

Yawning is the only complete jaw release the body organises on its own. You may as well use it.

Let your mouth fall slightly open, breathe in slowly through the nose, and let the jaw drop without forcing the opening. A real yawn often shows up after two or three tries. It takes the throat, the tongue, the soft palate and the diaphragm along with it, which no targeted exercise does as well. Repeat five to ten times, morning and evening.

Two caveats. Never open to your maximum if your jaw has locked before, and stop if you hear a sharp click in the joint.

Put two fingers just in front of your earlobe, then clench once: the muscle bulging under your fingers is the masseter. One of the strongest in the body for its size, and one of the few nobody ever thinks to massage.

Let go, and make slow small circles with moderate pressure, working down towards the angle of the jaw and back up to the temple. Two minutes, breathing normally. The most tender spots are not necessarily where it usually hurts: plenty of people find their most reactive point in the temporalis muscle, above the ear.

Last January, a physiotherapist had me keep those two fingers in place while we talked about something else entirely. Over four minutes of ordinary conversation, I had clenched eleven times without noticing once.

This one ties the release to something you already do constantly, so it needs no effort of memory.

Breathe in through the nose over three or four counts, changing nothing. On the exhale, lengthen the breath slightly and let the jaw drop a millimetre, as if it were suspended and you were loosening the thread. Do not try to open your mouth. Ten cycles or so are plenty. The release happens on the exhale, never on the inhale, and that holds for the jaw as much as for the shoulders.

If you already practise, this is the same mechanism described in our piece on the physiological sigh (in French), applied to one precise area rather than the whole body.

Here is the least impressive exercise, and by far the most useful. It consists of asking yourself, several times a day: are my teeth touching right now?

The question takes two seconds. If the answer is yes, you go back to the resting position from exercise 1, and that is it. The lever here is not intensity but how often the reminder fires, because clenching is unconscious and returns the moment attention moves elsewhere.

This is exactly the principle behind the biofeedback devices tested in clinical settings: an external signal that warns you at the moment of clenching. A systematic review on awake bruxism concludes that such devices do reduce excessive muscle activity, while noting that protocols remain heterogeneous and samples small (Vieira et al., 2023). A sticky note on the corner of your screen, or a quiet hourly alarm, is the same idea in homemade form.

Where to put the cues, concretely. Clenching episodes are not spread at random: they cluster on tasks that demand concentration or restraint, a difficult meeting, a tense file, a queue. So place your cues where you are most often holding something back, not in the calm moments when you are not clenching anyway. A note on the work screen, another on the steering wheel, a phone reminder in the early afternoon.

And when the reminder fires, do nothing more than the minimal move: teeth apart, tongue to the palate, one slightly longer exhale. Two seconds. The temptation is to run a full sequence, which makes the reminder expensive and quickly abandoned. A move you will do thirty times a day beats a perfect routine you will do twice a week.

This kind of scanning gets easier once you are used to listening to other areas of the body, the way a full body scan (in French) trains you to. And if you want the mechanism rather than the moves, our piece on what the jaw and tongue tell the brain (in French) covers the link between mental chatter and mouth tension.

They act on muscular tension and on the habit of clenching. They treat neither a damaged joint, nor a faulty bite, nor the sources of the stress feeding the clench.

Some signs call for a dental opinion rather than another round of exercises: pain lasting several weeks, a limited or locking mouth opening, a painful click, visibly worn teeth, or waking up with a sore jaw. These exercises do not replace an examination, and doing them harder compensates for nothing.

One last thing, less obvious: aim to feel the resting position, not to control it. Plenty of people leave their first sessions monitoring their jaw non stop, which adds tension exactly where we were trying to remove some. Two minutes in the morning, two in the evening, and a handful of reminders across the day do more than constant vigilance.